Here are the most important steps to make your ex-boyfriend want you back, they are very important because they will play on his psychology and his emotions a lot, most importantly, they will create a deep feeling in him to be with you and to have you back.
- The first one is to avoid calling/texting him.
And here, I’m talking about calling, texting, and even e-mailing him! I don’t want you to even reach him over Facebook or twitter, to him; he should think that you are dead, that you are not interested in him anymore and that you have lost all interest in him!
If you want to make your ex-boyfriend want you back, he has to first miss you, and for him to feel so, you have to disappear from his life!
I know that what I’m saying here is going to sound very strange and somehow rude, but this is the best way to make an ex-boyfriend want you back, he has to think that you have lots of great things going on in your life and he has to feel the need to be with you again.
- The next step is to look amazing and have fun by yourself.
Indeed, when you have fun and you enjoy yourself, your body changes, your psychology changes, and most importantly, you change for the better and you become a much more attractive person.
This is a very important step because most girls will simply ignore and let themselves go after a breakup, which is very dangerous for their self-esteem.
I don’t want you to do this, instead, I want you to enjoy yourself and have fun, even by yourself!
Trust me, it doesn’t matter a lot, what matters is that you have a fantastic time with yourself and you go out every day and have lots of fun with your friends, this is very important.
- The third step is to learn from your mistakes.
Here, I want to focus on the mistakes you have done when you were with him!
- Were you nagging him all the time?
- Where you flirting with other guys?
- Did you disrespect him?
- Were you careless about your physical appearance?
- Were you boring?
- Did you cheat on him?
- Did you ignore him for a long time?
Well, I want you to learn from these mistakes and I want you to understand that when he gets back with you and you are still the same person, he will definitely stay away from you; in fact, he will run away from you as soon as he discovers that you are still the same.
So, you need to change as a person, you need to evolve and you need to become a new you.
- And the fourth step is to use the competition.
Using other guys is one of the easiest ways to make an ex-boyfriend want you back.
It’s not very difficult, when you are nice, smiling, and very kind and funny with other guys, they will want to get close to you, they will want to be with you, and most importantly, your ex-boyfriend is going to notice this and after a short time, he will feel rage inside when he sees you with other guys, this will push him to start reaching you and to try to get in touch with you.