To keep a man’s attention on you, you need many criteria and many personality traits that you should exhibit! Not all women can be capable of doing this, only the ones who are going to implement the advice I’m going to give in this post, which are from the reality, because I am a man after all and I know what interests me and what keeps me challenged.
So, how do you keep a man challenged whether you are dating him or in a relationship?
You need to apply the following advice:
- The first one is to never reveal everything about you.
By this, I don’t mean that you should hide some very crucial information from him, what I’m talking about is not revealing everything there is to know about you.
To keep a man challenged, he needs to be always thinking about you and always trying to figure you out.
And you need to understand that the moment a man is going to know everything there is to know about you, he is going to give up on you because you are not going to keep him interested enough.
However, I’m not advising you here to lie to him and to keep him from important information about you, for example your job and some of your personal information!
You should only give him details, never give a man everything there is to know about you, never tell a man every secret you have, especially the emotional ones, because they are the ones which will keep him guessing and challenged the most.
- The second advice to keep a man challenged is to listen to him.
You should understand that many women in this world don’t have this very important skill: listening!
They think that the only way they can keep a man attracted and challenged with them is to feed him right and satisfy him sexually!
But this is completely false, men need to be heard and they need to be listened to.
If a man finds a woman who can listen to him long enough and give him enough attention, he will feel deeply satisfied with her and he will never try to leave her again.
- Now, let’s talk about the third way to keep him challenged: teasing him.
Who said women should be the only ones to be teased and seduced?!
A man needs to be seduced and romanced as well, and the best way to do so is to tease him. If you cannot make him laugh, he is going to feel unhappy and he is not going to have a strong personality around you, in other words, he is not going to feel comfortable around you and taking decisions when it comes to the relationship.
Yes, a man, in order to be challenged, needs to be teased and he also needs to be seduced, like a woman.
However, the only difference is in the degree, don’t exaggerate and try to be extremely cocky around them, you may hurt him very quickly because men have very strong egos, just be fun around them, it is more than enough.
- And the fourth way to keep a man challenged is to relax with him and let him do his work.
What do I mean by letting a man do his work?
It simply means that a man needs to be the one responsible for the woman; he needs to be taking charge of everything, from making decisions to even driving her around when getting the groceries.
If a man doesn’t feel he is needed by a woman, he will keep silent, and he is simply going to give up on her quickly.
Let him be the man, let him seduce you, let him romance and be powerful in the relationship, and you will win his heart and keep him challenged all the time.
Most importantly, stop acting like a man in the relationship, stop giving him orders and trying to make important decisions, it is his job after all, the man should be the head of the couple, it doesn’t mean that the woman is not important, she is the most important part of the relationship because she is the one cared for.
These are the most important steps to keeping a man challenged.