What I’m going to share with you today is very important in order to not only understand possessive men, but to also protect yourself from their mean behaviors and manipulative psychology!
One very neglected aspect by nearly a large majority of women is the fact that most guys are possessive by nature, this is not very bad, what I’m talking about here is that they would like to “gain some control” over their women, it’s not dangerous, but it’s nonetheless positive, that’s not what I’m going to talk about today, I’m only going to talk about those possessive signs that are very dangerous for relationships and even for your well-being, they are the source of nearly all marital and relationship problems couples face!
So, what are some very obvious signs of a possessive man? This is what you are going to find out in the following sections:
- The first sign of a possessive man is not listening!
It just refuses to listen!
Whenever you tell him about something or you would like to talk to him about something very important to you, he will just “ignore” you!
In other words, he will busy himself doing something else or just avoid looking at you!
Inside, you feel that you are not being heard; you feel that he is not paying attention to you and most importantly, that he is neglecting you and not giving you the right to speak yourself with him!
This is a very obvious sign that a man is very possessive; he wants to be in control of the relationship by “stonewalling” you, by not giving you your right to be heard.
To him, you are just something he possesses!
- The second sign of a possessive man is wanting things to be his way all the time!
For example, whenever he makes a decision, he will defend it with strength and determination, you feel that he makes things “personal” very easily, and yet, when you give him a different opinion and you show different views and needs, he will become angry and he may even tell you to “shut up” and to only do things his way.
This is very important to know, most guys are possessive, but when they do this all the time, it becomes very dangerous for the relationship and it means one thing: his possessiveness has taken control of his psychology and he is now a very manipulative man, he will easily manipulate you in order to get what he wants and to not give you your rights, inside, he is afraid of losing you, in fact, he is afraid of losing face, especially to a “woman”!
Yes, this is the reality with most possessive guys, they don’t want to lose face in front of their women, to them, they see it as a sign of low self-esteem and low self-confidence as well.
- The third sign of a very possessive man is using strength!
For example, you argue with him about something, and soon, you find him shouting and screaming at you!
This is a very obvious sign that he is a possessive guy, he would like to impose things on you , even by “force”.
- The fourth sign is neglect!
When he feels that things are slipping away from his hands, you start to have your own voice for example, he can no longer control and manipulate you, he will resort to guys’ most obvious technique for manipulating women: “neglect”.
For example, he will stop answering your calls, he will ignore your text messages, when you are talking to him, he will listen to you, but without being interested the least in what you are saying, he is trying to stay away from you as a mean to punish you!
These are the most obvious signs of a very possessive man, if you have other ones, please, share them in the section below.