Although the title of this post may seem a little strange, but I’ve had one or two women asking me this question before: can I use voodoo to keep my man?
I’m sure that this question is going to sound strange to most of you, but let me tell you that I live in Belgium where there is a large Haitian and African community, and many of them still believe in voodoo, in fact, I have been asked this question over and over in my workshops and seminars.
So, can you use voodoo to keep a man interested in you and attracted to you?
The answer is absolutely not, voodoo is just folklore, it’s a spiritual technique used by certain Latin American communities to deal with their problems, and from my experience, it doesn’t work! Absolutely not!
So, how can you attract a man and keep him interested in you without using voodoo?
You can do this by being and having the following traits:
- You need to always keep him guessing about you.
In other words, your man should always have you in his thoughts, he must be thinking about you all the time, and to achieve this, you must not give too much of yourself, you must always stay secretive about some areas of your life, especially when it comes to your true personality.
The moment a man knows you for sure, he is going to get bored of you and he may even start looking for another woman to be with.
Yes, this is absolutely true, and even if you use voodoo with a man who is already bored with you, it’s never going to work with you!
- The second step you need to take in order to keep a man interested in you is to be kind to him.
Most women who are in long relationships are going to tell you that the best advice they can give you is to respect your man and to be kind to him, in other words, to acknowledge him and to be feminine whenever he is around you.
There is one thing that scares men of women; it’s being confronted with stress in their relationships!
For example, if you are argumentative, if you are very powerful, if you are nagging and always trying to make him wrong or when you try to correct him, then he is going to run away no matter what you do.
Yes, you need to become feminine again with him, you need to become submissive and fragile, this is what truly attracts men to women, and if you don’t do it the correct way, he is simply going to run away from you.
I know that the word submissive here is going to sound pejorative and a bit degrading, but the reality is that men prefer women who are submissive and prefer to be with women who make them feel strong and manly.
So, using voodoo to keep a man attracted to you is not going to work, the only thing that’s going to give you a fantastic result is using the techniques I’ve just explained in this post.