Why do men lie to women they love? If you don’t know the answer to this very important question, then this post is going to help you a lot, in it, I’m going to explain the psychology of men, why do they lie to the woman they love and most importantly, how you can get them to tell you the truth!
- The first reason why men lie to women they love is because they feel afraid of losing them.
A man who is afraid to lose the love of his life will do everything just to keep her with him, and most importantly, he will always try to look “nice and amazing” to her, in other words, if she asks him a question which is embarrassing or if she tries to dig deeper into his past and he knows it’s not pretty, then he is going to lie to her.
This is a very common issue with guys nowadays, they are full of troubles, and yet, they don’t want to share them with their women because they think that deep down, they will run away from them once they know who they really are!
So, better comfort your man, create the right environment where he can come clean to you and tell you the truth about everything that’s going on in his life, stop nagging him and stop criticizing him for every little mistake he makes, that’s what made him lie to you in the first place, probably!
- The second reason is lack of self-confidence.
Self-confidence is also very important when you want a guy to tell you the truth, if he lacks it, then he will not tell you what is going on in his life and even worse, he will probably lie about it and tell you something completely fictitious!
Indeed, when a man hasn’t got the right self-confidence and the right self-esteem, he will try to lie his way into becoming more interested and trying to be “good” to you!
So, if you want your man to tell you the truth, cultivate an environment where you can grow his self-esteem and more importantly, his self-confidence.
- The third reason is because men are crooked!
Of course, most women tend to come up with lots of theories and ideas about the reasons why men lie to them, when in fact it’s very easy to understand, they are dealing with crooked people!
I’ve dealt with many crooked men in my life that will lie just to sell me something or just to prove a point!
It may be the case for you as well! He may be a liar, a born one!
You should also have this in mind, but please, when you find out that you are with such a person who lies for a living and who lies just to please himself, then you need to end the relationship with him as soon as possible unless he changes for good.