Today, I would like to share with you the main reasons why a guy play hard to get with girls, trust me, this is very important for you to understand.
- The first reason is that he likes her a lot!
This is the main reason why most guys prefer to play hard to get with girls, it’s because they like them and they feel great about them, they want to look as difficult and not easy to seduce, most importantly, guys who play hard to get want to make girls feel that they haven’t won them yet!
This is one of the main strategies used by guys in order to attract girls and make them feel great about them and highly confident, they simply play hard to get with them, they will delay meeting them, they will not answer their phone calls immediately, and will even go out with other girls to make them feel jealous.
Deep down, they like the girl they are dating or they are interested in and they want to show her how attractive and confident they are as well.
- The second reason is a guy feels she is out of his league.
Let’s say that you are out of his league, if he uses the boring strategies most guys use, he will definitely not go out with you, that’s why guys prefer to play hard to get, trust me, I am a guy and I know that it works, when you play hard to get, you feel very confident and you feel that you have something to bargain with, however, if you just “be” a nice guy, who is very weak and who feels very vulnerable and not in control with her, then, he has nothing to bargain with and he has everything to lose!
At least, when things don’t work out, he can boast to his friends that he “didn’t like her in the first place”!
- The third reason is he is really very attractive and confident!
When a guy is very confident and very successful with girls as well, he will not play hard to get as a strategy, but it’s his real identity.
For example, a friend of mine who is an extremely successful entrepreneur, single, in his mid-thirties, and athletic looking, is always trying to avoid girls, he is always playing hard to get, when he goes to the club, he will sit alone or with his friends, and if girls smile or look at him, he will just turn his head away, completely ignoring them!
He doesn’t do it because he is mean or because he is playing hard to get, he does this because he has so many girls orbiting around him!
Sometimes, a guy may have a lot of success with girls, and playing hard to get is the only way he can maintain his self-esteem and avoid rejecting girls around him and hurting them.
- And the fourth reason is he is scared!
Of course, if he is scared of looking weak in front of you, he will play hard to get, he will try to look at the strongest in the interaction and as the one who has nothing to lose, this is also a strategy used by guys who feel weak in front of girls.